For women: Here’s how to make a rich, classy man fall in love with you

1. Be confident — but make the confidence real

What works best is internal confidence, the kind that comes from being a successful woman who is happy in the life she’s chosen for herself. Are you living up to your potential? Are you achieving the goals you set? This is what gives you confidence and far beyond faking it.

2. Learn what’s important to him

The best way to connect with a man so that he falls in love is to bond with him. How do you do this? By learning what motivates him, what he values, and why he thinks and feels the way that he does. Most women never make this kind of effort to bond. But this is ultimately what a man wants the most — to find a soulmate!

3. Find common interests in conversation and lifestyle

You must build a strong foundation built on common interests. Do you have similar backgrounds and childhoods? Do you have similar hobbies and passions? Do you have similar careers or charity projects? Is your conversation always smooth and fun, because you think alike on many issues? Is your political and religious viewpoint very similar, if not exactly alike?

4. Be independent, but enjoy his company

A rich man definitely wants his future wife to be independent. He doesn’t want a subservient wife. He doesn’t want a pushover or a bimbo. He wants someone independent, with their own life, and their own ambitions. He wants you to achieve your own dreams and goals in life, but he’s not going to do it for you.

5. Be ambitious — about something else besides money

Lastly, it’s time to channel your ambitions into something worthwhile. Remember, he already has money. So he doesn’t care too much about making more money. He wants something better. An ambition that’s more focused on improving humanity, helping people, and doing great things in the name of progress.



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